Thursday, February 25, 2010

When Will I Ever Find My Soulmate?

One of the most asked questions in Psychic Readings has to do with relationships. People want to know when they will be in a relationship, will they ever have someone to share their life with. One of our main lessons on earth has to do with relationships. It is the most intense lesson we have incarnated to learn. Unfortunately, most of us are not doing very well with it.
Many of us have issues in our relationships with our parents or siblings. When we are older, this carries over to relationships with the opposite sex. We attract someone who treats us just as Mom did, or someone just like our brother. We will continue to attract similar relationships and issues until we learn the lessons they are meant to teach us. The quicker we learn the lessons, the quicker we can manifest a different relationship.
It can be very difficult for us to understand that we are attracting those painful relationships so that we can learn a lesson from them. We can't understand why our soul would cause us so much pain, how we can be doing this to ourselves. Reality is that we attract everything in our life. Everything that happens to us is attracted to us because of the vibration that we are putting out. This vibration goes out in the Universe and attracts people of similar vibration.
You may have a subconscious belief that people who love you will always hurt you. This may attract a parent who is abusive, friends who use you and romantic relationships with someone who is abusive. Your subconscious always attracts events that will prove that it's beliefs are right. If your subconscious belief is that people who love you will always leave you, then you will attract that reality. If your subconscious belief is that love is wonderful and lasts forever, then that is the reality you will create.
To have healthy relationships, it is important that we find our core beliefs and heal them. This is the only way to break the cycle and stop attracting particular experiences to us. There are many ways to heal these issues. My favorite is the 'Feelings Prayer', but there is also EFT, the Sedona Method, Byron Katie's The Work, and many more.
It is also important that we become the person we are looking for. When we take on the characteristics of the person we are looking for, we will then send out those vibrations and attract that same vibration back to us. Most of all, learn to love yourself. Others can only love us to the extent that we love ourselves. If we love ourselves, then we will be putting out the vibration that we are capable of giving and receiving love, and will attract others of similar vibration.
Manifest your Soulmate by loving yourself and be your own Soulmate!

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