How many women have you talked to about making a man fall in love? How many different ideas have you received? How many of these women have been successful in their mission to make a man fall in love? Let's take a look at all that this involves.
There is one initial problem that most women will encounter when starting up a relationship with a new guy. There usually is a lust verse love dilemma present in the very beginning. Basically, this exists in the guy's mind and it can be very confusing for him. He is driven by lust and he likes that feeling. Lust is easy, it's natural, and it is powerful and it will make him think that he is falling in love.
Unfortunately, this is not what is taking place. These physical desires are just happening to your guy, and he doesn't have to put out any effort to keep them going. But, they will begin to fade as the newness wears off, and, if you haven't put more into the relationship than physical satisfaction, your relationship will probably wear off also.
The secret is to make an emotional attachment with your guy before a physical one if you want to make him fall in love. This will take some effort on yours and your guy's part but this is the only way to have the substance needed to build a lasting relationship. You will be so much better off and have a much better chance at success if you keep the physical stuff out of the way in the beginning.
Don't give in to the lust until your emotional bond is firmly established. Once sex is introduced, you will not get your guy to focus on feelings. You better believe that his attention will be directed elsewhere. But, you have to remember that the only love that will last will be one based on feelings and friendship, so work on this first if you want to make your man fall in love with you.
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