Girls, admit it or not, likes to be eaten down there. It's seldom to find a girl who doesn't like to be given head once she has experienced it and has been truly satisfied through it. If she had bad experience with it however, she may have some apprehension of doing the deed again. That is why you must know how to do it properly to satisfy your girl and make her want to beg you to do it to her again and again. So let's learn about eating out a girl perfectly.
Unlike boys, girls are harder to please and stimulate. With just a glimpse of a cleavage, a thong above the jeans, legs to behold, a boy could get a hard on automatically. This is not the case for most females. You need to stimulate them, to light them up and build up their fires. The one good thing going for them though is when you have build up their fire, they last longer than men's.
Eating her down there is one of the most pleasurable things you can do for her, to help her achieve climax, without actually having actual intercourse with her. Otherwise known as cunnilingus, eating her down there is regarded as outercourse, meaning no actual penetration of sexual organs are involved. However, there is no denying the fact that it is one of the most pleasurable things a woman can experience sexually.
Whether you're preparing her for the actual coitus or you just want her to feel good, you must ensure that when you give her head, you are not mauling her very sensitive parts. You want to bring her pleasure, not pain. Although, some girls would like it rougher than most, still, girls would prefer it to be caressing and tender generally. As the arousal intensifies however, you could change the rhythm into faster and with more wild abandon than when first starting out.
When you eat a girl out, you don't directly go down on her and lick her mound with fervor and wild abandon. You have to get her in the right mood, so she would not feel rigid and tense when you start nibbling her down there. Right foreplay is the key to this. Get her to relax, kiss her and caress her erogenous zones. You should tease her by nibbling her neck, sucking on her nipples, caressing her thighs with your lips, left a blazing trail of kisses from her navel down to her mound, just before her clitoris then focusing on leaving kisses with alternating sucking on her legs and thighs before you actually position your mouth in front of her love canal.
You can blow warm breath directly at her vagina to heighten her sexual arousal. By licking her clitoris with the tip of your tongue and sliding down her slit and kissing her labia, she would be making her beg you to do it to her, the direct licking and sucking of her vagina while thrusting your tongue inside, just like in actual coitus.
If you want to make your woman happy and satisfied, you must always observe her responses to what you do to her. If she's moaning and squirming, then she definitely likes what you're doing to you. However, if she is pushing you away and seems to close up her legs, it's probably because she maybe feeling hurt or too much pressure on her clitoris had been applied which makes her uncomfortable. The key to making her happy is to be always on the lookout for her reactions. You can then either continue or change your strategy, based on such reactions.
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Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
How to Make a Man Pursue You? Important Pointers You Need to Know to Make Him Pursue You
Getting a man to pursue is more desirable than having to chase a man that you like. For this firstly you need to make him notice you and attract him so that you have got his attention.
Be aware of your worth
Before you start on your agenda, take some time out and write down all the positives in you and tell yourself that you are worthy of being pursued by men. While at it, note down the traits that you want in a man besides his looks or wealth.
Show your interest
Let the guy know that you are interested in him; usually a warm smile and your friendly attitude should send the message across. If he likes you he will be more than willing to take the hint. When you are successful in attracting his attention you have made your mark as you have placed yourself firmly in his mind.
Don't chase him
If you want to be pursued, do not chase him at all. It is as simple as that, ignite the interest in him and let him do the chasing. If he calls you, take turn to call him back but don't be the one to pursue.
You have to be worth his effort
Remember there is a big difference between attracting his attention and getting him to pursue you, it has to be worth his time and effort to chase you. Show that you are not only attractive but are an emotionally balanced person too. You don't have to be a model but should be at your attractive best to keep him interested.
Be someone interesting
When you have a life of your own, are busy pursuing your interests and hobbies apart form your work or studies it makes you an interesting person. It also shows that you are independent and not someone who is clingy.
Be a mystery women
Be a mystery woman and he will chase you till he knows you well, you become an enigma that makes him more curious about you. Impress him with your varied interests, you may make him something special one evening or ask him for great outdoors the next week. When he sees that being with you means expecting something different each time you meet, you will be more desirable to him.
Make the chase interesting
Always stay few steps ahead of him so that he has to catch up with you, with you remaining out of his reach. The idea is to make him chase you and not be with you, but giving him the feeling that he can win you and your affections in the end
Be aware of your worth
Before you start on your agenda, take some time out and write down all the positives in you and tell yourself that you are worthy of being pursued by men. While at it, note down the traits that you want in a man besides his looks or wealth.
Show your interest
Let the guy know that you are interested in him; usually a warm smile and your friendly attitude should send the message across. If he likes you he will be more than willing to take the hint. When you are successful in attracting his attention you have made your mark as you have placed yourself firmly in his mind.
Don't chase him
If you want to be pursued, do not chase him at all. It is as simple as that, ignite the interest in him and let him do the chasing. If he calls you, take turn to call him back but don't be the one to pursue.
You have to be worth his effort
Remember there is a big difference between attracting his attention and getting him to pursue you, it has to be worth his time and effort to chase you. Show that you are not only attractive but are an emotionally balanced person too. You don't have to be a model but should be at your attractive best to keep him interested.
Be someone interesting
When you have a life of your own, are busy pursuing your interests and hobbies apart form your work or studies it makes you an interesting person. It also shows that you are independent and not someone who is clingy.
Be a mystery women
Be a mystery woman and he will chase you till he knows you well, you become an enigma that makes him more curious about you. Impress him with your varied interests, you may make him something special one evening or ask him for great outdoors the next week. When he sees that being with you means expecting something different each time you meet, you will be more desirable to him.
Make the chase interesting
Always stay few steps ahead of him so that he has to catch up with you, with you remaining out of his reach. The idea is to make him chase you and not be with you, but giving him the feeling that he can win you and your affections in the end
Monday, February 21, 2011
Should a Man and Woman Be Friends First, Before Lovers? Is It Important to Be Friends First?
The answer is yes, for some finding a partner for casual sex may be an agenda but if the couple is friends first they can handle the physical and psychological consequences of sex better and it helps in forging a greater intimacy.
It may work for short term
Often people jump into serious relationship quickly and into a bed too without getting to know each other well. It feels great for a short term but it distracts them from really knowing each other on intimate level. Sex is an expression of intimacy and commitment for each other so it will do well if one works on being friends first.
It does not lead to long term relationship
Most couples break up if sex is the only thing that is the binding factor in their relationship. A man and the woman have to be compatible and find out if they connect emotionally as well and this is not possible if they are meeting only for sex.
Being friends is necessary
In any relationship developing the bond of friendship is very important as it means one understands each other and is comfortable together. This makes the progression to next level easier and the relationship will be successful as you have spent time to know your partner and know his/her characteristics and traits.
The relationship has a solid foundation
When you work to be friends there is great understanding of each others needs and desires. There are no unreal expectations as you know your partner well but this does not mean that sex in committed relationship should be boring. When one spends enough time with each other you know the person as he/she is and there is no pretense involved.
The bond is stronger
When there is friendship the bond is deeper and stronger and taking it to next level from here makes your relationship more meaningful and intimate. When you know each others likes and dislikes and want to please them it brings you closer both physically and emotionally.
Intimacy
You grow close emotionally and the intimacy grows steadily. There is a feeling of being connected and bonding where you can count on each other. There is a sense of mutual sharing and genuine liking for one another.
Excitement and passion are the key factors
There is excitement and desire to build a rapport as a team that develops from having trust, respect and tolerance for each other. There is an element of romance and attraction that is absent in casual sex.
It may work for short term
Often people jump into serious relationship quickly and into a bed too without getting to know each other well. It feels great for a short term but it distracts them from really knowing each other on intimate level. Sex is an expression of intimacy and commitment for each other so it will do well if one works on being friends first.
It does not lead to long term relationship
Most couples break up if sex is the only thing that is the binding factor in their relationship. A man and the woman have to be compatible and find out if they connect emotionally as well and this is not possible if they are meeting only for sex.
Being friends is necessary
In any relationship developing the bond of friendship is very important as it means one understands each other and is comfortable together. This makes the progression to next level easier and the relationship will be successful as you have spent time to know your partner and know his/her characteristics and traits.
The relationship has a solid foundation
When you work to be friends there is great understanding of each others needs and desires. There are no unreal expectations as you know your partner well but this does not mean that sex in committed relationship should be boring. When one spends enough time with each other you know the person as he/she is and there is no pretense involved.
The bond is stronger
When there is friendship the bond is deeper and stronger and taking it to next level from here makes your relationship more meaningful and intimate. When you know each others likes and dislikes and want to please them it brings you closer both physically and emotionally.
Intimacy
You grow close emotionally and the intimacy grows steadily. There is a feeling of being connected and bonding where you can count on each other. There is a sense of mutual sharing and genuine liking for one another.
Excitement and passion are the key factors
There is excitement and desire to build a rapport as a team that develops from having trust, respect and tolerance for each other. There is an element of romance and attraction that is absent in casual sex.
Friday, February 18, 2011
The Laws of Attraction - Do They Exist?
The word attraction coupled with the many myths associated with it is difficult to comprehend. Despite many books written on the subject, there is still vagueness in understanding the subject. In short it is not easy to define this word in one sentence not even in one paragraph.
Many people and especially men have fallen victims of this believe and the confusion associated with lack of clear cut definition of the word attraction. It is sometimes damaging that many men are so demoralized to a point of forsaking the dating issue completely which is not healthy at all.
Having the wrong information is dangerous in the same way, having the right knowledge in this subject of dating will be so helpful to the man interested in finding a woman to date. Right information will trash the wrong perception out of the way.
Never be pushed to be what you are not. Avoid grooming yourself to fit in her shoes or to appear as though you are her match. This is a myth and it doesn't work at all. Ladies are known to walk with a list of things they would love their men to have.
From the onset, understand that offering goods and gifts to your woman of choice is not synonymous to being loved or winning her heart. If you have not won her emotions, you may nit get her to like you.
One other misconception or myth peddled by men is that you cannot win a woman who is better positioned status wise to love you. When you consider her education or even her life achievements, you may get scared to even approach her leave alone engaging her for a date.
Always endeavor to be the king in this subject. Not in material things but in manner of conversation. Ladies feel comfortable being with a man who treasures her. So boost your image and confidence as you keep on showing her that you admire her and soon she will be ready for your date.
Remember you are the king and the person to determine the way things will go in this venture, good or bad. So carry yourself in the best way possible when you are with your queen to make sure it can go as well as possible. Avoid belittling yourself before her. Take charge and she will get along well with you and hopefully wish to continue seeing you.
Many people and especially men have fallen victims of this believe and the confusion associated with lack of clear cut definition of the word attraction. It is sometimes damaging that many men are so demoralized to a point of forsaking the dating issue completely which is not healthy at all.
Having the wrong information is dangerous in the same way, having the right knowledge in this subject of dating will be so helpful to the man interested in finding a woman to date. Right information will trash the wrong perception out of the way.
Never be pushed to be what you are not. Avoid grooming yourself to fit in her shoes or to appear as though you are her match. This is a myth and it doesn't work at all. Ladies are known to walk with a list of things they would love their men to have.
From the onset, understand that offering goods and gifts to your woman of choice is not synonymous to being loved or winning her heart. If you have not won her emotions, you may nit get her to like you.
One other misconception or myth peddled by men is that you cannot win a woman who is better positioned status wise to love you. When you consider her education or even her life achievements, you may get scared to even approach her leave alone engaging her for a date.
Always endeavor to be the king in this subject. Not in material things but in manner of conversation. Ladies feel comfortable being with a man who treasures her. So boost your image and confidence as you keep on showing her that you admire her and soon she will be ready for your date.
Remember you are the king and the person to determine the way things will go in this venture, good or bad. So carry yourself in the best way possible when you are with your queen to make sure it can go as well as possible. Avoid belittling yourself before her. Take charge and she will get along well with you and hopefully wish to continue seeing you.
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